Don't want to be here? Leave.

Forget the introduction, I am too irritated to keep any proper way of writing this post. After last
year´s scandal with expressing too much via FB status, I´ll try to be more diplomatic this time.

I do enjoy studying. Really I do. Maybe it is hard to imagine that someone actually likes studying in Slovakia, I mean we know the education system here is not the best. As I always say it is about trying to do things better.

My university is not perfect. But people who teach there (most of them) are really great, supportive and I see the effort to share the knowledge and their own experience. The value of their help and support is priceless. Sharing internship opportunity, sharing job opportunity, they even bring a professional for the class to teach us more. How great is that?

Unfortunately, not everyone sees it this way. Some students are not interested in studying at all, but
it´s for free so they have to try it. After the first year, they find out the school is not exactly what they expected. So. Do they quit? No. And here we go why am I sooo irritated.

Why would you continue in something you partially hate? Because your parents want it? Because it is for free? Because you are so bored and have nothing better to do with you leisure time?

YEEESSS.

Oh, maybe I forgot to mention that this article is written with a slight trace of disgust and hate, so if you can´t stand this or you answered to previous questions positively, stop reading NOW.

OK. Yesterday we had a morning class joined by professional from famous newspapers. Out of 18, students only 7 showed up. It is a shame. The whole lecture was for free, we could ask whatever we were curious about and there was a discussion too. I feel bad to be ashamed of something that is not my fault. The highlight of the awkward moments was when I followed the gaze of the lecturer to see my classmate was eating her breakfast..really loudly. I whispered: Get rid of it please.. and she said angrily: I haven't had my breakfast yet!

source:http://ww.buzzfeed.com/samstryker/things-college-students-say-and-what-they-really-meanw

The next thing is about the attitude. While we (students who actually want to be there) are sharing classes with students who don't care it is hard to focus. Almost every lecture starts with teacher asking: Where is the rest of you? Will they join us? Why are they missing? What happened?
Well, I guess I know. How would it sound if I said: They hate to study here sorry. So they skipped the class today and they are having fun in a pub instead of sitting here. I can't do that because it's none of my business.

Also, it is really uncomfortable when they are at school. They don't do assignments for classes so they are always unprepared and argue with teacher or moan how horrible this school is. It is so embarrassing to sit there and listen to that. It is impossible to ignore it. Another thing is when they eat during class,  fix their make-up during class, or comb each other hair. I am not kidding.

When the rare moment of interest comes it is the time when they comment on the political situation in our country or they say to our professor that she looks like a punker. Seriously.

The funniest thing is our dialog when I start to be really angry.
Me:Can you be quiet, please? You are interrupting everyone.
They: If you have problem leave.
Me: I am good, thank you. You leave.

And this goes on and on. Whose fault is this? Who is responsible for this mess? I won't judge anyone. I think the adult people should be responsible themselves.  The university should choose students properly. Is it laziness or old-fashioned of Slovak educational system?
Maybe more important is what are we doing (not) with our lives? In this little country full of possibilities. My only point is I am tired of this.

Can men and women be just friends?

Have you ever wondered about the possibility of being just friends with opposite gender? I don't consider it as something that people usually look for. It just happens and not everytime it ends very well. Yes, and here comes the question. Why?

How is it possibe that even when you swear to yourself at the beginnig of the friendship with person of opposite gender that nothing is going to happen, something always happens? The answer is simple: We're just humans.
Ok, for me it's not enough. Why it never works out?

Because of attraction? Passion? What is it?

Four years ago, I saw an interesting video made by University of Utah which followed this problem. It was some kind of a research among university students.(video.) My point is that in this video, there was a big difference between girls and boys answers. Guess what was the difference... Who said that it is possible and who said it's not? Yeah, you're right. Mainly girls were sure about the possibility of being just friends with a boy and boys thought the opposite.

source:http://www.justinstum.com/blog/5-signs-of-a-healthy-couple-relationship/

Maybe the question that should have been asked is not if it's possible to stay just friends, but what are both sides true intentions at the beggining of the friendship. There are many ways how to fall into this kind of relationship. Let's talk about them and maybe it will bring us closer to this mystery.

 1. Friends since chilhood.

It's quite a common thing, isn't it? For sure you have or had a friend from chilhood with whom you shared secrets and had lots of fun. Very often it turns against you. You fall in love and you are friendzoned because you don't want to be brokenhearted or lose someone you love, so you keep on pretending friendship. In adulthood you remember that but it doesn't count because you were children. So you lie to yourself that now, when you are grown up, you see into these things better and you can control your emotions and keep the friendship going well. It's not going to work.

2. The second caterogy I am going to describe is 'schoolmates, collegues and friends of yours friends.'

Don't roll your eyes! What a great feeling to share similar thoughts or have fun with someone new... I know, I know...You get closer and closer, you start to spend time together, text all the time and things like this. Your first intention shouldn't be to fall in love but it can happen very fast! I'll tell you when. At that moment when you start telling yourself: 'He/She is just a friend, nothing more.' And here we go. Trouble.


3. Can your Ex be your friend?

'I don't love you anymore but can we stay friends?' No, darling we can't!
Don't give me that look, I am going to explain.When you split up with someone you loved it's so complicated and full of doubts - like how do you really feel about that person even after some years. Complicated.


Maybe you think I ruined every possibility of being 'just friends.' I didn't. So in what case you can stay 'just friends'?
It happens only sometimes and there are only two ways how it happens:

The first one - if there is no attraction . No, chemistry, no real love - I don't mean it like if he or she is your type. No, it's about chemistry. Simply - chemistry is a part of love. (Of course you can love him or her for his or her soul).

The second one - keep the reasonable distance. It works. Particularly when he or she is in a relationship, you take responsiblity for your behviour, as not to provocate or hurt them, and hurt yourself in the process.
We often push things and act really stupid even when we are realazing it. Don't do that.


So what is the answer? Does friendship between man and woman exist?
I think the answer is yes. Unfortunately you never know how long it will last. It is one of the most wonderful things in the world. These kinds of friendships can last for years or end up after one month. There is no way of protecting yourself. But there is one thing you can do and it's the same in all kinds of relationships: always be honest with yourself and you will be happier than you might have evert thought.

Fashion outlook (no. 1) What. to. wear.

Čo si obliecť

Úprimne väčšine ľudí to jedno nie je. A nie je to jedno ani tebe, ani mne. Čo si obliecť je často až zahanbujúcou dilemou, keď zrátame koľko času strávime pred otvorenou skriňou a tupím zízaním na šatstvo v nej.

Oblečenie a teda samotná móda je istým spôsobom sebavyjadrenia a nášmu JA dodáva rám (v povrchnom zmysle slova).

Ok. To máme tie teoretické rečičky.
Ak si flegma, ktorej je jedno čo má na sebe, alebo extrémne teplákový týpek, prestaň čítať TERAZ.

Heslo "hlavne pohodlne" je podľa mňa blbosť, lebo až neuveriteľné percento z nás si pre módu vytrpí svoje. Povedzme si na rovinu, že dojem je niekedy väčšou satisfakciou ako pohodlie.

Fashion outlook sa nebude hrať na módneho diktátora, ale bude inšpiráciou a mojím pohľadom na svet módy. Fashion outlook priblíži skvostné výtvory svetových návrhárov a rovnako aj high street značiek.

Na úvod - Detaily tvoria celok.

Detailom nenazývam len doplnky (kabelky, opasky, šperky...), ale aj strih, farbu a materiál. Tieto detaily určujú trendy každej sezóny. Dominantným prvkom pre rok 2015 bude haute couture a najmä módny dom Dior prepája minulosť s blízkou budúcnosťou. Haute couture je o detailoch a kvalite, ktoré dotvárajú celok.

Emma Watson a Haute Couture

Kabelka od Diora (2015)

Niekoľko doplnkov pre radosť

YSL clutch bag

 Casual look doplnený koženou kabelkou vyzdvihne celok.

highsnobiety.com

 Čiapka a tenisky sú dominantné.

Dobre, Prada nikdy nič nepokazí.

Pre inšpiráciu ku každodennému rozhodovaniu, alebo na doplnenie vášho wishlistu followujte
vogue.com
harpersbazaar.com
vanityfair.com

highsnobiety.com

je to úplný základ. 
Na záver slávny výrok, ktorý pozná každý fashionista.;)

Fashion outlook by Adnilowl (comming soon)

Móda je záležitosťou, ktorá hýbe svetom a pre Adnilowl je neoddeliteľnou súčasťou. Pripravujeme prvú pravidelnú rubriku Fashion outlook by Adnilowl a ešte jedno prekvapenie, ktoré bude zverejnené cez víkend. Stay tuned!

PF 2015 Adnilowl

31. december - posledný deň v roku. Môj najneobľúbnejší deň. Určite ho nezbožňujú ani tí z vás, ktorí sa začiatkom decembra chválili pripravenými novoročnými predsavzatiami.

Vážení, je tu zúčtovanie. Či chceme, či nechceme aj tak sa pred vstupom do nového roka obzrieme.
Je to tam. Všetko čo sme zbabrali, všetko čo sme nesplnili, ale aj veci, na ktoré sme právom hrdí a náhody, ktoré veľa zmenili bez toho, aby sme to vôbec predom plánovali.

Drahá realita 'se vším všudy' je tu a pôjde s nami aj do nového roka. Ak chcete niečo naozaj zmeniť, tak to zmeňte, ak ste leniví a za tú námahu vám to nestojí, radšej na to kašlite a nerozprávajte o tom zbytočne. Odlajknite milión motivačných stránok na facebooku, ktorými strpčujete život vašim virtuálnym priateľom a hor sa žiť!

Držím Vám palce drahí priatelia a do Nového roku prajem, aby ste úspechy slávili s radosťou a prehry prekonali s pokojom!

Everything has changed

Few months have passed since I started my study at the University. This year was incredible and also very unpredictible for me.

I wasn't wondering about any special kind of an University since my try to become an proffesional actress was ruined. I thought that my only worry was to pass the final exams and then doesn't matter what will happen next. Of coure I was accepted to Media relations study, what was great but that wasn't what I exactly expected from life after graduation.

Well, I passed the final exams and suddenly there was it. The World. I do not mean it the way that I have been awaken to reality. I had many plans for summer it was ok but when was summer comming to an end, I was becomming more and more nervous.

The University is a  mixture of every possible emotion and if you are lucky as I am you are going through all of them at once.

Firstly, it like amazing, great, super, and so on. All the possibilities and opportunities, that freedom ah. That lasted for first two weeks. I became overmotivated and suddenly extremly tired.

I didn't understand what was wrong. I was trying very hard but didn't feel the satisfaction of a hard work.

Problem was that I forget the most important thing..I wasn't enjoying it. Everything I done was because I must, not because I wanted to. It's a big difference. Sometimes it lasts very long till we can realize how to move forward.

Well, although moving forward is hard and when you are frightened about everything it is even harder. It is about pushing the limits farther. Work has its time and relax has its time.

I went through a change. I stopped thinking about things a started doing them. Something similar to if you know the movie Yes man but not that crazy. Just living live and trying to be happy.

The university is great and future wide open. I want to grab the chance and make the life great. When everything change it does't mean it has to be bad. In my case it was the best thing ever.

The best 2014 Christmas commercials (and why do we really love them)

I know, I know, when we hear about Christmas commercials these days we just roll our eyes at it.

Especially in Slovakia, Christmas commercials are pretty annoying and their only purpose is to persuade us to buy new mobile phone or tablet and stuff like this. That's normal but the way they try to persuade us is disgusting or let's say really embarassing.

Maybe the reason why Christmas commercials are that bad is that companies try to reach the biggest target group. Another reason is the lack of creativity screaming and kicking from televisons screens.
The whole commercial industry in Slovakia is focused on material stuff and spiritual stuff is missed out.

Thank God this problem is not everywhere. In western countries the companies are able to produce commercials and reach their goal with added value for customers. Added value means they deliver something more than just product they want you to buy. They make commercial deep or funny or both. There is something you can think about but also something that moves you forward because the main purpose is the Christmas time, and presents are just one of the tools to make people happy. If companies know the right way and know their target group only than can they deliver added value and of course product. New trend is adding hash tag in your commercial so you reach the biggest audience possible.

source

 
I think that Christmas commercials should spread the Christmas athmosphere and remind people the main purpose of Christmas is to give love and share happiness with your loved ones and also strangers.

Here are some of the best Christmas commercials:

Lewis John Lewis commercial is the cutest thing ever. Make someone you love happy.


Sainsbury Sainsbury's commercial is breathtaking. We can hardly imagine what it was like to spend the Christmas eve in war zone.

Cocacola Cocacola is known for their wonderful commercials and they focus on sharing happiness.

Santa You believe in Santa and Santa believes in you.

Burberry Burberry. That little Beckham boy is a cutie. And of course I want to dance in London in that coat.

Mulberry Mulberry definitely won Christmas. It is the funniest commercial ever. Enjoy!

Well, I hope you will have a very merry Christmas and do not forget, it is not about presents but about love. :)